I’m baaack!

I’m baaack!

Real Life has been getting in the way in a big way for the last 6 weeks, and I simply have not had the time or the energy to post.  But soon I’ll be back to my normal, slacker, blogging self, with daily updates, a groovy new blog theme, Green Room posts at Hot Air, and Twitter snark. So consider this your Official Warning.

Added: among other things that have kept me away from blogging – we’re very nearly finished with the construction on the addition to our home.  Floating the sheet rock and texturing the walls with a orange-peel finish took a great deal longer than we expected, but we’re finally done with that. Now, on to flooring, final plumbing, and finish work! And then, thank God, my mother can move out of my living room and into a very comfortable space of her own.

 

A Dragon Just Went Between

Anne McCaffrey died today.

I first fell in love with her Crystal Singer books, and then… I escaped into Pern and stayed there a very long time.  She provided me with more hours of entertainment than I can ever calculate, and was the first woman scifi/fantasy writer I ever read.  Her death was not untimely or unexpected – she was 85 years old. Still, it feels like a loss.

Added: Foxfier comments, “I still get teary-eyed thinking about the Masterharper’s death.”  I do too.

 

Ditto

I saw this on Wil Wheaton’s Google+ feed and it resonated with me because my mother and I just talked about this yesterday. She commented that someone in the family was going to turn 60 this year and it shocked me. Mom wanted to know why I was so surprised – after all, she said, “You know that I’m [this age].” Frankly, that shocks me too. It shocks me that I’m 43 years old. I don’t feel any different. Sure, I know that I’m wiser and more mature than I was twenty years ago. I know that. I may respond to stimuli differently, but deep down, I don’t feel any different than the 20 year old idiot that I was. And the kicker is that my mother said she feels exactly the same way.

I can’t be the father of an 8-year-old girl. I’m 16, playing Pac-Man at the bowling alley in Londonderry, NH. I’m 15 in the middle of a “couples skate” at Spinning Wheels roller rink. I’m 14 playing Jumpman on my next door neighbor’s Commodore 128. I still buy Hot Wheels at the supermarket. I still don’t understand girls. I’m not a good dancer. I buy too many jackets. I don’t have any of the answers a dad should have.

Maybe none of us do.

Unapt To Toil

We’ve finally finished – except for the ridge cap – shingling the roof on our addition. It’s been about twenty years since I helped shingle a roof and I certainly hope I never will again.  My hands and the front of my knees are burned – like a bad sunburn – from the heat of the roof and shingles. (And the back of my knees are raw because when the heat was too much, I wore kneepads and the straps chafed.) I’m all about the girl power and equal rights, but let me tell you, I was so humbled and impressed by my husband and son-in-law’s ability to work far beyond reasonable expectations that I cite Katherine unsarcastically:

Thy husband is thy lord, thy life, thy keeper,
Thy head, thy sovereign, one that cares for thee,
And for thy maintenance commits his body
To painful labor both by sea and land,
To watch the night in storms, the day in cold,
Whilst thou liest warm at home, secure and safe,
And craves no other tribute at thy hands
But love, fair looks and true obedience—
Too little payment for so great a debt.
[...]
Why are our bodies soft and weak and smooth,
Unapt to toil and trouble in the world,
But that our soft conditions and our hearts
Should well agree with our external parts?

Painful labor, indeed. And I definitely cop to the “soft and weak and smooth, unapt to toil.”

I’m sure, in a country of 300 million people, there are women roofers. (More power to you, hon.)  As for me and my house, I will serve inside as much as possible, in decently conditioned air.  Well, I say that, but when it’s time to put the siding up I’ll be out there again. I can’t keep up with the men, but I can help some, and I will. Still, I’d be remiss not to say how much they impressed me, getting this job done in a heat index that often exceeded 100 degrees.  And the construction proceeds apace…